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Todo or Not Todo – That is the Question

Prioritization is often framed as a question of efficiency: how to do more, faster, and with fewer resources. Yet for leaders working in complex environments, the real challenge is not the volume of work, but the quality and allocation of attention.

A useful metaphor here is juggling. As long as only a few balls are in the air, the movement feels fluid and controlled. But as more balls are added, something counterintuitive happens: not only do more balls begin to drop, but fewer remain securely in the hands. The system does not degrade linearly. It collapses in quality.

This is exactly how attention behaves in organizations. When too many tracks are open at the same time, progress does not slow evenly across them. Instead, focus fragments, decision-making becomes reactive, and very little moves forward with real momentum. This is why closing tracks matters. Not partially, not “almost done,” but truly finished. Only then does opening a new track make sense.

The harder question is how a leader decides what deserves attention in the first place. There are excellent frameworks that support this process, and they can be genuinely helpful when used from the right internal state. Asking whether a decision is reversible often clarifies risk. Considering the scale of impact — local, team-level, or systemic — brings perspective to what initially feels urgent.

Another powerful shift comes from defining outcomes rather than tasks, as tasks multiply easily, but outcomes force choice. When attention is anchored in what actually needs to change in the system, many “nice to have” activities fall away on their own, without requiring discipline or force.

Classic prioritization models, such as Brian Tracy’s ABCDE framework, remain useful precisely because they are simple. Yet they only work when there is enough inner calm to distinguish between what is truly necessary and what is merely familiar, reassuring, or ego-affirming. Without that calm, even the best frameworks become another layer of pressure.

Interestingly, one of the most counterintuitive tools for improving prioritization is strict timeboxing. When time is genuinely limited, rather than theoretically flexible, the mind begins to solve the optimization problem on its own. Attention naturally gravitates toward what has the greatest impact, and much of what once felt urgent quietly loses its pull.

Ultimately, prioritization is not a technique. It is a relationship with attention. A recognition that not every ball needs to stay in the air, and that sustainable progress often comes less from doing more, and more from choosing what not to carry. When attention is focused rather than scattered, leadership becomes clearer, calmer, and more effective — not because the work is easier, but because it is aligned.